Saturday, December 25, 2010
Bangkok Temples
Instead of the usual Wat Pho (Reclinging Buddha), Wat Arun (Temple of the dawn) and Grand palace. Here in my blog, I recommend some of the more interesting temples to visit.
1) Wat Saket (Golden Mount)
Wat Saket’s major feature is the Golden Mount, dating from the 1800. It is an artificial hill topped by a gilded pagoda which is 260 feet in height from its base. Begun by King Rama III and completed in the reign of King Rama IV, the golden mount is one of the most celebrated landmarks in Bangkok’s old area. The golden Chedi houses relics of Buddha and affords visitors who climb its 318 steps a panoramic view of Bangkok from the top.
If you decided not to go, you may look for a 2 Baht coin, the temple is revealed on the surface of the coin.
Where: Wat Saket is located between Ratchadamnoen Klang and Boripihat road.
2) Wat Indraviharn
The 32m standing Buddha wrapped with his robe is impressive. The temple also contains a chinese shrine and statues of Ramas IV and Ramas V. What's more, it's open to public everyday and free admission. Now there is a good reason to Dana (make donations).
Where: Wat Indraviharn in Bangkok is on Thanon Wisut Kasat (Wisut Kasat Road) off Thanon Samsen, quite close to the Thewet Flower Market. Wat Indravirharn is very close to Rama VIII Bridge.
A visit to the monk’s bowl village is a bonus if you must.
This is the only surviving village established by Rama I to make the bàht (rounded bowls) that the monks carry to receive food alms from faithful Buddhists every morning. Today the average monk relies on a bowl mass-produced in China, but the traditional technique survives in Ban Baht thanks to patronage by tourists.
Where: Soi Ban Baht, Th Bamrung Meuang
1) Wat Saket (Golden Mount)
Wat Saket’s major feature is the Golden Mount, dating from the 1800. It is an artificial hill topped by a gilded pagoda which is 260 feet in height from its base. Begun by King Rama III and completed in the reign of King Rama IV, the golden mount is one of the most celebrated landmarks in Bangkok’s old area. The golden Chedi houses relics of Buddha and affords visitors who climb its 318 steps a panoramic view of Bangkok from the top.
If you decided not to go, you may look for a 2 Baht coin, the temple is revealed on the surface of the coin.
Where: Wat Saket is located between Ratchadamnoen Klang and Boripihat road.
2) Wat Indraviharn
The 32m standing Buddha wrapped with his robe is impressive. The temple also contains a chinese shrine and statues of Ramas IV and Ramas V. What's more, it's open to public everyday and free admission. Now there is a good reason to Dana (make donations).
Where: Wat Indraviharn in Bangkok is on Thanon Wisut Kasat (Wisut Kasat Road) off Thanon Samsen, quite close to the Thewet Flower Market. Wat Indravirharn is very close to Rama VIII Bridge.
A visit to the monk’s bowl village is a bonus if you must.
This is the only surviving village established by Rama I to make the bàht (rounded bowls) that the monks carry to receive food alms from faithful Buddhists every morning. Today the average monk relies on a bowl mass-produced in China, but the traditional technique survives in Ban Baht thanks to patronage by tourists.
Where: Soi Ban Baht, Th Bamrung Meuang
Tuesday, December 14, 2010
Bangkok Boat ride
The best way to mesmerize by Bangkok is to take a boat ride from Saphan Taksin Pier. Best timing is around 5pm when the sun is about to set...
Sunday, November 28, 2010
Bangkok - Catch a movie
Funny how watching a movie can be so truly unique, the best part in the cinema is the salutation to the King before the movie starts. The great imax theatre in Siam Paragon is breathe-taking, the screen is so huge that it swallows me up! Not to mention the reasonable price and the 5 stars luxury seats. Make sure it's a local Thai movie with English subtitles, it’s truly Thailand!
Watch it in Siam Paragon or Central world!
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Bangkok Markets
Here is where you'll find the cheap thrills and show off your bargaining skills. For me, personally, 20 Bahts - 50 Bahts means a lot to them rather than to us in Singapore, they may be able to fill their stomach with 2 meals for the money you've bargained so give it to them!
Silom Night Market Most people goes there for Tiger/pussy show and anything sleazy you may get from vibrators - porn. A good selection of GLBT movies! Fake branded goods are overprice but the experience is priceless.
By Bts to Saladaeng station
Time: 7pm - 2am, daily
Siam Square Night Market There is a strict regulation now impose to the hawkers, however, once there's a market going on, you can be sure to find great buys and rubbing through the crowds.
By Bts to Siam station. On the stretch of Siam Square
Time: 9pm - Midnight, daily
Saphan Phut (Memorial Bridge) Night Market Second hand clothing and fabulous handicrafts/accesories. I love it especially it's under the bridge. Very local and authetic. You might need to speak a little Thai to get the best price!
By Ferry to Saphan Phut (Memorial Bridge) or best still take a taxi as I'm not going to tell you how to make a change or where to alight by bus.
Time: 7pm to midnight, Closed on Monday
Khao San Day and Night Market Get your Bob Marley (dreadlock) hair-do done on the street with fake student pass made here. Fashion apparels are slightly overprice but very edgy ad bagpackers style!
By Ferry to Phra Arhit or best still take a taxi as I'm not going to tell you how to make a change or where to alight by bus.
Suan Lum Night Market It's not as popular as before maybe it's because they are going to move soon but you can be sure to get the local handicrafts back home for souvenirs!
By Metro Lumbini
Time: 7pm - Midnight
Ratchada Night Market This night market brings you back to the past, with all the vintage toys, clothings, clocks and many more. It's a good place to dig and If you're lucky you might find some rare and precious treasures.
By Metro Lat Phrao
Time: 7pm to midnight
Siam Square Night Market Despite the government's effort of clearing up the narrow walkway beside Siam BTS, this market is persistence to exist, with the strong desire of the teenagers trying to make a living, you can find stylish & fashionable apparels for ladies and men. Hard not to visit since you're already near Siam Paragon.
By Bts Siam
Time: 8pm - midnight, Daily
Victory Monument Day and Night Market It's a bustling street with stalls beautifying on the side of the streets. You've to walk a bit towards the burnt Big C buildings but your shopping bags will be rewarded.
By Bts Victory Monument
Wang Lang Market The usual market with what you might expect.
By express boat from Saphan Taskin > Tha Wang Lang Pier
Time: 10 am - 4pm daily, weekend hours extend longer
Lalaisap afternoon market This market especially for the executives around the office area is interesting! I'm sure you can upgrade your working wadrobe instantly!
By Bts in between BTS Chong Nonsi and Saladaeng
Time: 11am - 2pm, Weekdays
Pratunam Wholesale Market You'll go crazy gaga especially for the ladies! As long as you get what you want, 3 pieces and above for a good price. Yes, it doesn't matter which design or cols just as long as it's the same price for per item.
By Bts Chitlom and walk from central, opp of Platinum Fashion mall
Time: 9am - 6pm daily
Chinatown Wholesale Market For all the aunties whom need to get their Chinese mushroom, red dates, longans fix by the local chinese medicine halls. Be sure to hit this street! Ladies, lots of accessories for you to drool!
By express boat from Saphan Taskin > Rachawongse
Time: 9 am - 5pm daily
Lung Perm (Thai airways) Day Market Ladies, you can go ahead but Gents stay behind. Nothing for you except the good food around.
By metro Phahol Yothin and take a taxi from there
Time: 9am - 5pm daily
Major Ratchayothin Market Local market where tourist are not found and if you don't speak any Thai, try not to torture the locals. However, if you do, the shopping trip can be very rewarding.
By metro Phahol Yothin
Time: 4pm - 11pm, Tue - Sun
Train Market It's located near Chatuchak except it operates till midnight, similar vibe to Ratchada market, second hand retro stuff with local teenagers hanging out.
By metro Kamphaengphet
Time: 2pm - Midnight, Sat & Sun
Chatuchak Weekend Market The market of all markets! You can find anything here under the sky. From household items, fashion apparels to Pets (snake). Knock yourself out!
By Bts Mochit or Metro Chatukchak Park
Only weekends from 9am - 6pm
Silom Night Market Most people goes there for Tiger/pussy show and anything sleazy you may get from vibrators - porn. A good selection of GLBT movies! Fake branded goods are overprice but the experience is priceless.
By Bts to Saladaeng station
Time: 7pm - 2am, daily
Siam Square Night Market There is a strict regulation now impose to the hawkers, however, once there's a market going on, you can be sure to find great buys and rubbing through the crowds.
By Bts to Siam station. On the stretch of Siam Square
Time: 9pm - Midnight, daily
Saphan Phut (Memorial Bridge) Night Market Second hand clothing and fabulous handicrafts/accesories. I love it especially it's under the bridge. Very local and authetic. You might need to speak a little Thai to get the best price!
By Ferry to Saphan Phut (Memorial Bridge) or best still take a taxi as I'm not going to tell you how to make a change or where to alight by bus.
Time: 7pm to midnight, Closed on Monday
Khao San Day and Night Market Get your Bob Marley (dreadlock) hair-do done on the street with fake student pass made here. Fashion apparels are slightly overprice but very edgy ad bagpackers style!
By Ferry to Phra Arhit or best still take a taxi as I'm not going to tell you how to make a change or where to alight by bus.
Suan Lum Night Market It's not as popular as before maybe it's because they are going to move soon but you can be sure to get the local handicrafts back home for souvenirs!
By Metro Lumbini
Time: 7pm - Midnight
Ratchada Night Market This night market brings you back to the past, with all the vintage toys, clothings, clocks and many more. It's a good place to dig and If you're lucky you might find some rare and precious treasures.
By Metro Lat Phrao
Time: 7pm to midnight
Siam Square Night Market Despite the government's effort of clearing up the narrow walkway beside Siam BTS, this market is persistence to exist, with the strong desire of the teenagers trying to make a living, you can find stylish & fashionable apparels for ladies and men. Hard not to visit since you're already near Siam Paragon.
By Bts Siam
Time: 8pm - midnight, Daily
Victory Monument Day and Night Market It's a bustling street with stalls beautifying on the side of the streets. You've to walk a bit towards the burnt Big C buildings but your shopping bags will be rewarded.
By Bts Victory Monument
Wang Lang Market The usual market with what you might expect.
By express boat from Saphan Taskin > Tha Wang Lang Pier
Time: 10 am - 4pm daily, weekend hours extend longer
Lalaisap afternoon market This market especially for the executives around the office area is interesting! I'm sure you can upgrade your working wadrobe instantly!
By Bts in between BTS Chong Nonsi and Saladaeng
Time: 11am - 2pm, Weekdays
Pratunam Wholesale Market You'll go crazy gaga especially for the ladies! As long as you get what you want, 3 pieces and above for a good price. Yes, it doesn't matter which design or cols just as long as it's the same price for per item.
By Bts Chitlom and walk from central, opp of Platinum Fashion mall
Time: 9am - 6pm daily
Chinatown Wholesale Market For all the aunties whom need to get their Chinese mushroom, red dates, longans fix by the local chinese medicine halls. Be sure to hit this street! Ladies, lots of accessories for you to drool!
By express boat from Saphan Taskin > Rachawongse
Time: 9 am - 5pm daily
Lung Perm (Thai airways) Day Market Ladies, you can go ahead but Gents stay behind. Nothing for you except the good food around.
By metro Phahol Yothin and take a taxi from there
Time: 9am - 5pm daily
Major Ratchayothin Market Local market where tourist are not found and if you don't speak any Thai, try not to torture the locals. However, if you do, the shopping trip can be very rewarding.
By metro Phahol Yothin
Time: 4pm - 11pm, Tue - Sun
Train Market It's located near Chatuchak except it operates till midnight, similar vibe to Ratchada market, second hand retro stuff with local teenagers hanging out.
By metro Kamphaengphet
Time: 2pm - Midnight, Sat & Sun
Chatuchak Weekend Market The market of all markets! You can find anything here under the sky. From household items, fashion apparels to Pets (snake). Knock yourself out!
By Bts Mochit or Metro Chatukchak Park
Only weekends from 9am - 6pm
Sunday, November 21, 2010
Thai Creativity
Thai people seem to have abundant of creativity. From the handicrafts you seen in the night market, fashion that they personify, hilarious TV commercial, display of their food and astounding buildings That's one of the reason why I'm always lured into this country.
Take an example on the recent protest; first, they have a hug Thailand campaign where everyone sends in their pictures to translate those ideas by hugging a lamppost, strangers on the road and even mail box that spells Thailand identity to tell all Thai citizens that they're together as one, Khun Thai Rak Khun Thai (Thai people loves Thai people). Then they transform the destruction during the protest into an exhibition, the remains from the buildings that were burnt was transformed into something useful. I marvel at their creativity and applaud them for looking so positive and creatively towards the future.
www.campaignasia.com/Article/219252,tourism-authority-of-thailand-motivates-domestic-travel-through-hug-thailand-campaign.aspx
Take an example on the recent protest; first, they have a hug Thailand campaign where everyone sends in their pictures to translate those ideas by hugging a lamppost, strangers on the road and even mail box that spells Thailand identity to tell all Thai citizens that they're together as one, Khun Thai Rak Khun Thai (Thai people loves Thai people). Then they transform the destruction during the protest into an exhibition, the remains from the buildings that were burnt was transformed into something useful. I marvel at their creativity and applaud them for looking so positive and creatively towards the future.
www.campaignasia.com/Article/219252,tourism-authority-of-thailand-motivates-domestic-travel-through-hug-thailand-campaign.aspx
Bangkok 2010 - DIY
Everyone expect if not demand a blog or at least a few entries on Bangkok from me and since I'm staying here for one whole month. I might as well write something or recommend places to eat or shop. Thus, here you go. A list of on-going places that you might marvel in Bangkok.
D-I-Y
1) BY HANDS craft
Learn how to create and decorate rattan handbag
Address: Building 8, Sukhumvit 55
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
2) Blue Elephant
Learn how to cook in Thai style
233 South Sathorn Rd, Yannawa
Nearest Bts station: Surasak
D-I-Y
1) BY HANDS craft
Learn how to create and decorate rattan handbag
Address: Building 8, Sukhumvit 55
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
2) Blue Elephant
Learn how to cook in Thai style
233 South Sathorn Rd, Yannawa
Nearest Bts station: Surasak
Bangkok 2010 - Shop till you drop
Everyone expect if not demand a blog or at least a few entries on Bangkok from me and since I'm staying here for one whole month. I might as well write something or recommend places to eat, shop and be merry. Thus, here you go. A list of on-going places that you might marvel in Bangkok and no, not introducing the red light district. Go at your own risk.
1) Plearn Wan is ... “Center of joy and happiness ...It reflects the not-so-distant past; looking and feeling decidedly retro and nostalgia. The slogan of almost everything at Plearn Wan is “as in the past”. Why go to the future where you can revisit the past?
Address: 387/18 Thong lor
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
2) Again & again A rare vintage shop with not so pricy tags, recycling started when vintage is in trend. Here they stock up fabulous dresses and a small selection of clothing and shoes for men as well. For the one and only without looking ordinary.
Address: Room B1A, Market Place, Thong lor Soi 4
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
3) Naraya All the women goes frenzy in this shop, some man too. They sell all kind of bags with a ribbon bow as their trademarks in a very affordable price. You can find bags for your every day to night needs. There are a few branches but the popular one is at Central World.
Address: B106-B107, Ground Floor, Central World Plaza
Nearest Bts station: Siam
Website: www.naraya.com/
4) Myth A very cool and hip boutique with a mixture of unique individual take on Fashion, gathering renowned Thai fashion labels and stylish accessories makers: Flamingo, Issue, Muse by Good Mixer, Wolfkind Museum, Bangkok Smith and Erb. They have a small beauty treatment or massage at a corner and even have astrology reading on very Wednesday.
Address: Gaysorn, 2F-25/26 2nd floor
Nearest Bts station: Chitlom
Website: www.gaysorn.com
4) id1 A multi-labels avenue for all the upcoming and inspiring designers.
Address: Amarin Plaza, First floor
Nearest Bts station: Chitlom
5) mob.F Stylishly trendy for the youth and fashionably unique. It showcase a lot of promising local Thai designer.
Address: Siam centre, Fourth floor
Nearest Bts station: Siam
Website: www.mob-f.com
6) Platinum Fashion mall It's like Chatuchak weekend market with air-con. You've to really dig it throughout if you don't want to miss anything. 3 pieces and above gives you best price!
Nearest Bts station: Chit lom, 10mins walk from Central
Website: www.platinumfashionmall.com/
1) Plearn Wan is ... “Center of joy and happiness ...It reflects the not-so-distant past; looking and feeling decidedly retro and nostalgia. The slogan of almost everything at Plearn Wan is “as in the past”. Why go to the future where you can revisit the past?
Address: 387/18 Thong lor
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
2) Again & again A rare vintage shop with not so pricy tags, recycling started when vintage is in trend. Here they stock up fabulous dresses and a small selection of clothing and shoes for men as well. For the one and only without looking ordinary.
Address: Room B1A, Market Place, Thong lor Soi 4
Nearest Bts station: Thong Lor
3) Naraya All the women goes frenzy in this shop, some man too. They sell all kind of bags with a ribbon bow as their trademarks in a very affordable price. You can find bags for your every day to night needs. There are a few branches but the popular one is at Central World.
Address: B106-B107, Ground Floor, Central World Plaza
Nearest Bts station: Siam
Website: www.naraya.com/
4) Myth A very cool and hip boutique with a mixture of unique individual take on Fashion, gathering renowned Thai fashion labels and stylish accessories makers: Flamingo, Issue, Muse by Good Mixer, Wolfkind Museum, Bangkok Smith and Erb. They have a small beauty treatment or massage at a corner and even have astrology reading on very Wednesday.
Address: Gaysorn, 2F-25/26 2nd floor
Nearest Bts station: Chitlom
Website: www.gaysorn.com
4) id1 A multi-labels avenue for all the upcoming and inspiring designers.
Address: Amarin Plaza, First floor
Nearest Bts station: Chitlom
5) mob.F Stylishly trendy for the youth and fashionably unique. It showcase a lot of promising local Thai designer.
Address: Siam centre, Fourth floor
Nearest Bts station: Siam
Website: www.mob-f.com
6) Platinum Fashion mall It's like Chatuchak weekend market with air-con. You've to really dig it throughout if you don't want to miss anything. 3 pieces and above gives you best price!
Nearest Bts station: Chit lom, 10mins walk from Central
Website: www.platinumfashionmall.com/
Bangkok 2010 - Beauty & Spa
Everyone expect if not demand a blog or at least a few entries on Bangkok from me and since I'm staying here for one whole month. I might as well write something or recommend places to eat or shop. Thus, here you go. A list of on-going places that you might marvel in Bangkok.
1) Avanti
I don't do massagesas I've intimacy phobia but the facial is good, also most of the time going to spa sometimes depends on a streak of luck. If you get the right masseur, everything will be delightful. One more thing, the ambience is relaxing!
Address:
Siam Square: 2nd Floor, Lido Theatre, Siam Square Soi 3, Rama 1 Road
Thonglor: Located on the main Thonglor Road (Sukhumvit 55) between Thonglor Soi 7 and Soi 5, Sukhumvit
Nearest Bts station: Siam & Thong lor
Website: www.avantispathailand.com/index.php?lay=show&ac=article&Id=526277
2) Sabai Thai Massage
For no-nonsense massage, just go straight into the bed, I mean the extended long chair; you can try this place which offers therapeutic art of stretching, pushing, pressing and relaxing by certified qualified masseuses. If you're not satisfied with the masseur, you can ask for a change in the first 5 - 10 minutes. Just be careful, don't be blinded by the good looking man as it's very near to the gay red light district.
Address: 16/2 Silom Rd Suriyawong, Bangrak
Nearest Bts station: Saladaeng
1) Avanti
I don't do massagesas I've intimacy phobia but the facial is good, also most of the time going to spa sometimes depends on a streak of luck. If you get the right masseur, everything will be delightful. One more thing, the ambience is relaxing!
Address:
Siam Square: 2nd Floor, Lido Theatre, Siam Square Soi 3, Rama 1 Road
Thonglor: Located on the main Thonglor Road (Sukhumvit 55) between Thonglor Soi 7 and Soi 5, Sukhumvit
Nearest Bts station: Siam & Thong lor
Website: www.avantispathailand.com/index.php?lay=show&ac=article&Id=526277
2) Sabai Thai Massage
For no-nonsense massage, just go straight into the bed, I mean the extended long chair; you can try this place which offers therapeutic art of stretching, pushing, pressing and relaxing by certified qualified masseuses. If you're not satisfied with the masseur, you can ask for a change in the first 5 - 10 minutes. Just be careful, don't be blinded by the good looking man as it's very near to the gay red light district.
Address: 16/2 Silom Rd Suriyawong, Bangrak
Nearest Bts station: Saladaeng
Wednesday, November 17, 2010
Bangkok 2010 - Food for thoughts
Everyone expect if not demand a blog or at least a few entries on Bangkok from me and since I'm staying here for one whole month. I might as well write something or recommend places to eat or shop. Thus, here you go. A list of on-going places that you might marvel in Bangkok.
1) Banana Pasta (Kluay)
A cheerful Sukhumvit eatery with a selection of Italian pasta and pizza dishes.
The name of the eatery caught my eyes first. Why? I love Banana to be precise and any fruits that is yellow in color. It is run by a young Thai lady whom thinks delicious pasta dishes is kluay kluay (very easy) - that's why the restaurant's name came from ('kluay' also means 'banana' in Thai).
You can create your own pizza by choosing your own toppings. Soup are in generous portion. What's more, if you're sick of Phad Thai, an Italian dish might do you good
Address: Sukhumvit 1-33 & Sukhumvit 2-24 (Btw Sukhumvit soi 21 & 23)
Nearest Bts Station: Asoke
2) Q cafe
I'm mesmerize by the decor, that's all.
Address: 818 Sukhumvit 55 Rd
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
3) Vanilla Restaurant
Good place to hang out with a few friends, sharing the sinful desserts.
Address: 818 Sukhumvit 55 Rd
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
4) iBerry
A good mixture of real food and cakes!
Address: Thonglor Town Center, Soi 15
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
Website: www.iberryhomemade.com/page/en/home/index.php
4) THANN Boutique cafe
It's a totally new eating experience mainly because of the decor. It feels like Alice in the wonderland. The ambience is surreal!
Address: 1st floor, Gaysorn
Nearest Bts Station: Chitlom
1) Banana Pasta (Kluay)
A cheerful Sukhumvit eatery with a selection of Italian pasta and pizza dishes.
The name of the eatery caught my eyes first. Why? I love Banana to be precise and any fruits that is yellow in color. It is run by a young Thai lady whom thinks delicious pasta dishes is kluay kluay (very easy) - that's why the restaurant's name came from ('kluay' also means 'banana' in Thai).
You can create your own pizza by choosing your own toppings. Soup are in generous portion. What's more, if you're sick of Phad Thai, an Italian dish might do you good
Address: Sukhumvit 1-33 & Sukhumvit 2-24 (Btw Sukhumvit soi 21 & 23)
Nearest Bts Station: Asoke
2) Q cafe
I'm mesmerize by the decor, that's all.
Address: 818 Sukhumvit 55 Rd
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
3) Vanilla Restaurant
Good place to hang out with a few friends, sharing the sinful desserts.
Address: 818 Sukhumvit 55 Rd
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
4) iBerry
A good mixture of real food and cakes!
Address: Thonglor Town Center, Soi 15
Nearest Bts Station: Thong lor
Website: www.iberryhomemade.com/page/en/home/index.php
4) THANN Boutique cafe
It's a totally new eating experience mainly because of the decor. It feels like Alice in the wonderland. The ambience is surreal!
Address: 1st floor, Gaysorn
Nearest Bts Station: Chitlom
The Vagrant
While I was walking from Bts Eekamai to Bts Nana in Bangkok one day, I come across a cheerful old man, he is weaving something on his hand and he seems to be extremely gratified. Then I saw a newspaper article featuring him, Homeless Artist.
Now what are the chances of seeing him, with a sign saying that his birthday falls on 8th of November which is exactly the day I was born to the passersby? I can't help but to wonder, does everyone born on this same day have the same kind of attitude towards life?
Since young, I've no problems expressing my thoughts, some can be very intimidated by it because I've opinions on everything, I challenge everything by questioning, then I developed that curiosity into my lifestyle, travelling. I put myself in different shoes or countries to be precise. I lead my life at times, sleeping in different places every night, getting used to the unknown and not knowing what to anticipate. It's a life that most people find it without security. I guess that kind of security to some people comes within and not from an opulent and highly embellished house.
What kind of life is he having without a home to call his own? Does it matter where he shower and brush his teeth? It doesn't matter anymore as long as he is happy. It seems that the people whom have nothing to lose are the happiest people in this world...
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
My lifestyle, my choice
In the eyes of my friends or even strangers, my lifestyle is something that many covet or envy. My chums usually told me I would love to travel and backpack like you do, experience life and look at this world with a wide open heart but I don't have the courage or determination, not to mention the burdens of harsh realities that life accumulates, car and house, monthly bills and the costly expenses to maintain a fast pace lifestyle in this modern world. That’s why, in this world they are hardly anyone whom can travel like you do.
Every time I hear it, there is a sense of disappointment and sadness. Life is already too short to begin with yet people can’t pursue the lifestyle they want, it’s disheartening. There are people around me whom think that my lifestyle is liberating, trouble-free and some people will even think of it as a storyline for a movie. It’s unrealistic! It’s like a story based on Eat, Pray and Love except I started travelling before the book becomes popular. I can’t figure out what’s my main motivation, I just feel like there are a lot of places in this world waiting for me to visit, cuisines that yet to tickle my palette and strangers that yet to be my friend.
Saying I love to travel is under-rated, the best way to say it is I live to travel. In the beginning, I’m like everyone whom gets excited and nervous for a new destination, doing what the tourist does and buying souvenirs but now backpacking has a different meaning, it’s more adventurous and amazing to travel to an unexplored territory, meeting the locals, understanding their cultures and lifestyle. As my travelling goes on and on, I bought less souvenirs and visit less touristy spots. I know travelling to me has a new found meaning. At the end of every journey, I grow up with new perception; meeting people on the train, peeing in the middle of the road, sharing food with strangers becomes the main reason to reminiscence. Certain places or people make you nostalgic. From the excitement I used to have for travelling slowly turns into a simple minded and ordinary state of mind. I look at this world much clearer without preconceive excitement or expectations.
This few years, my vagabond lifestyle, alter my requirements on food and lodging, just as long I won’t died, that is my motto for travelling. Living in a foreign land, Aa single lifestyle, it’s not easy as everyone thinks, facing troubles or tricky problems, I’ve to resolve it on my own, trying every means to make my trip as cheap as possible. I never find myself choosing this path, leading a non-confined or cliché life. I’m gratified and easily contented. Gratified when my friend asks for my advice in the countries I’ve visited and some even follow my footsteps. I live myself in a map with no specific directions, I’ll let the shore washes me wherever I need to be.
It’s a lifestyle I chose and a choice I made without regrets.
Every time I hear it, there is a sense of disappointment and sadness. Life is already too short to begin with yet people can’t pursue the lifestyle they want, it’s disheartening. There are people around me whom think that my lifestyle is liberating, trouble-free and some people will even think of it as a storyline for a movie. It’s unrealistic! It’s like a story based on Eat, Pray and Love except I started travelling before the book becomes popular. I can’t figure out what’s my main motivation, I just feel like there are a lot of places in this world waiting for me to visit, cuisines that yet to tickle my palette and strangers that yet to be my friend.
Saying I love to travel is under-rated, the best way to say it is I live to travel. In the beginning, I’m like everyone whom gets excited and nervous for a new destination, doing what the tourist does and buying souvenirs but now backpacking has a different meaning, it’s more adventurous and amazing to travel to an unexplored territory, meeting the locals, understanding their cultures and lifestyle. As my travelling goes on and on, I bought less souvenirs and visit less touristy spots. I know travelling to me has a new found meaning. At the end of every journey, I grow up with new perception; meeting people on the train, peeing in the middle of the road, sharing food with strangers becomes the main reason to reminiscence. Certain places or people make you nostalgic. From the excitement I used to have for travelling slowly turns into a simple minded and ordinary state of mind. I look at this world much clearer without preconceive excitement or expectations.
This few years, my vagabond lifestyle, alter my requirements on food and lodging, just as long I won’t died, that is my motto for travelling. Living in a foreign land, Aa single lifestyle, it’s not easy as everyone thinks, facing troubles or tricky problems, I’ve to resolve it on my own, trying every means to make my trip as cheap as possible. I never find myself choosing this path, leading a non-confined or cliché life. I’m gratified and easily contented. Gratified when my friend asks for my advice in the countries I’ve visited and some even follow my footsteps. I live myself in a map with no specific directions, I’ll let the shore washes me wherever I need to be.
It’s a lifestyle I chose and a choice I made without regrets.
India point of view
Back in Singapore, the sun in India seems so close to you that you can almost reach out and grab it but coming back, the sun look so far away and mainly because it has been blocked by the high-rise buildings that I take the sun for granted somehow.
Indians, especially queuing up for train tickets are very impatient. A few times, I’ve been abandoned behind as they try to squeeze in front of me to the counter from the side.
Hygiene as the recent commonwealth games had illustrated is terrible. They litter everywhere on the road, the open public toilet where men pees along the road is filthy. The stench of dry urine fills up the air together with the traffic pollution and cow dung. Horning is like an aggressive trance on the road.
However, with all these in mind, if you do meet some nice curious Indians whom sit beside u on the train, or while waiting for your train sitting on the bench, you’ll discover the graciousness of Indians. They have so little but they give a lot. The only thing they’ll ask is if you’re married and if it’s arranged by your parents. Also, I just discovered at my age, 30 are too old to be a bachelor!
And don’t try to change that as Khun toon said, TTI, This is India!
Indians, especially queuing up for train tickets are very impatient. A few times, I’ve been abandoned behind as they try to squeeze in front of me to the counter from the side.
Hygiene as the recent commonwealth games had illustrated is terrible. They litter everywhere on the road, the open public toilet where men pees along the road is filthy. The stench of dry urine fills up the air together with the traffic pollution and cow dung. Horning is like an aggressive trance on the road.
However, with all these in mind, if you do meet some nice curious Indians whom sit beside u on the train, or while waiting for your train sitting on the bench, you’ll discover the graciousness of Indians. They have so little but they give a lot. The only thing they’ll ask is if you’re married and if it’s arranged by your parents. Also, I just discovered at my age, 30 are too old to be a bachelor!
And don’t try to change that as Khun toon said, TTI, This is India!
India Pilgrimage 30.09.2010
It’s going to be a long journey back home. From Delhi > Kuala Lumpur then transit from Kuala Lumpur to Singapore. It’s an “amazing” 12 – 14 hours journey I foresee. Nonetheless, the flight is not too boring. I got to meet an Indian lady, visiting her husband in Kuala Lumpur. Also, she is going to visit Singapore soon. I extend my invite for her to meet me when she is in Singapore. She is sweet, thoughtful and friendly.
After the long 30 days journey, I’ve reached back in the land I was born. Life couldn’t be more fulfilling and my trip is just the icing on the cake…
After the long 30 days journey, I’ve reached back in the land I was born. Life couldn’t be more fulfilling and my trip is just the icing on the cake…
India Pilgrimage 28.09.2010
Connaught Place is a new found shopping paradise! The only bad thing is you get harassed by the shop keeper frequently! I bought the Punjab traditional clothing, comprises a kurta pyjama. The kurta is a kind of loose shirt which is long and straight-cut. The pyjamas are loose, baggy pants which are tied at the waist which I absolutely love it!
I can’t help but to think that I bought more books than anything else in this trip. It’s about 8Kg. Can you believe it?
I can’t help but to think that I bought more books than anything else in this trip. It’s about 8Kg. Can you believe it?
India Pilgrimage 27.09.2010
I left Auranggabad to Delhi, overnight train is always lethargic. I booked a sleeper class and someone from my seat wishes to change the seat so he can sit with his friend. Well, what can I do? Separating people is the last thing on my mind now.
Finally, I’ve reached Dehli, traffic is overwhelming and the air pollution is coming back in the air I breathe. I search for numerous hotels, making a change instead of going back to Manuju ka tila. I went to Paharaja to seek for accommodation. After the long search, I settle down on a hotel with cable TV for 400 Rupees. There is a Paharaja market nearby and the he bookstore is fully equipped. I’ve discovered the new side of Delhi.
Finally, I’ve reached Dehli, traffic is overwhelming and the air pollution is coming back in the air I breathe. I search for numerous hotels, making a change instead of going back to Manuju ka tila. I went to Paharaja to seek for accommodation. After the long search, I settle down on a hotel with cable TV for 400 Rupees. There is a Paharaja market nearby and the he bookstore is fully equipped. I’ve discovered the new side of Delhi.
India Pilgrimage 26.09.2010
Ellora caves are more impressive than I expected to be even though it's a mixture of Hindu and Jain caves. One interesting discovery is that the sculptures in Jain caves always show their penises. :)
India Pilgrimage 25.09.2010
Ajanta caves are amazing. Just the landscape itself is breathe-taking. No wonder it’s been lost for centuries. If not for tiger hunting by the general smith, this place might still be hidden. I love the cave 26 which has a reclining Buddha stone sculpture, it’s truly majestic! There are of course a lot of freelance guides hanging around but I guess my Buddhist art and dharma is good enough ;)
India Pilgrimage 24.09.2010
I board the train to Aranggabard after the long gruesome wait in the train station. Along the way to Aurrangbard, I met some Punjabi. In the middle of the journey, she sliced up the fruits in pieces and made into a fruit salad. It seems like she has everything in her bag, salad dressing, cutlery and fruits.
I met a gentlemen along the way to Aranggabard, as he’s alighting the same stop, he kindly offers me to share the auto rickshaw with him. I love the energy of this city. However, the MDTC accommodation that he recommends is too expensive. I settled in a slightly less comfortable hotel which has cable TV. Lunch is fantastic!! The Hakka chow mein is better than the Chinese cook.
I met a gentlemen along the way to Aranggabard, as he’s alighting the same stop, he kindly offers me to share the auto rickshaw with him. I love the energy of this city. However, the MDTC accommodation that he recommends is too expensive. I settled in a slightly less comfortable hotel which has cable TV. Lunch is fantastic!! The Hakka chow mein is better than the Chinese cook.
India Pilgrimage 22.09.2010
I reached Sanchi after yet again long hours train journey from Groraphur. From Bhopal, I’ve to take a 2 hours bus to Sanchi. Sanchi seems like a dead town and the living conditions are really bad. The mozzies are in an army. I slept with 2 burning mosquitoes coils and 1 plugged electrical coil with a jacket and sweat pants, mosquitoes repellent all over my body before I sleep. You can just easily clap your hand and there’ll be dead mosquito on your hand.
My guesthouse is the worse ever I’ve slept so far. But I’ve met some really good friends from Belgium. We decided to meet early in the next morning to visit Sanchi together.
My guesthouse is the worse ever I’ve slept so far. But I’ve met some really good friends from Belgium. We decided to meet early in the next morning to visit Sanchi together.
India Pilgrimage 21.09.2010
I went to the museum in Kushinagar as it’s closed yesterday. I met Ramesh along the way to the museum. The Thai temple is highly embellished. I asked Ramesh to pick me up from the Chinese temple guest house to the bus station. From there, I took the bus to the Grorapuk train station.
India Pilgrimage 20.09.2010
If the Buddha’s Mahaparinibbana is not sad enough, then the surrounding and the people makes you gloomier. Maybe the fact that the surrounding in Kushinagar has turn into a lover’s park or picnic under the tree for the entire generation of families that it seem everyone forgotten that’s the place where a great man has passed away.
If you investigate this feeling of sadness, it’s impermanence. It arises and it gradually goes. It probably won’t last for the next few hours. That’s why Buddha asks us to be mindful and aware of this true nature, especially in every present. Nothing arises without a cause. All things depend on all other things to arise, develop and pass away. Discover the root of the cause and develop the true understanding of reality.
Kushinagar is more relaxed than other Buddhist sites. There are less traffic, hawkers to harass you for souvenir or rickshaws and beggars. I love the pace of life in this town. The local snacks along the road is tempting, I’m trying hard to control myself.
I met a kind soul, Ramesh, whom booked my train ticket. He is a very helpful and thoughtful fine man. Even though he has internet problem, he still managed to book my train ticket from another town, I doubt he earned any commission so I gave additional for transport to the next town and tips for all the efforts he made.
If you investigate this feeling of sadness, it’s impermanence. It arises and it gradually goes. It probably won’t last for the next few hours. That’s why Buddha asks us to be mindful and aware of this true nature, especially in every present. Nothing arises without a cause. All things depend on all other things to arise, develop and pass away. Discover the root of the cause and develop the true understanding of reality.
Kushinagar is more relaxed than other Buddhist sites. There are less traffic, hawkers to harass you for souvenir or rickshaws and beggars. I love the pace of life in this town. The local snacks along the road is tempting, I’m trying hard to control myself.
I met a kind soul, Ramesh, whom booked my train ticket. He is a very helpful and thoughtful fine man. Even though he has internet problem, he still managed to book my train ticket from another town, I doubt he earned any commission so I gave additional for transport to the next town and tips for all the efforts he made.
India Pilgrimage 19.09.2010
We reached Varanasi in the wee hours, around 2.30am. A Thai monk which Khun Toon has contacted has been waiting patiently for our arrival. We are supposed to come back to the train station again to pick up the 2 Japanese boys.
It turns out that the temple that we’re resting is in Sarnath and not in Varanasi, interestingly, that’s one of the temples I’ve visited few days ago when I was in Sarnath. I even ask myself why is there Thai monks staying in Chinese Mahayana temple. Come to think about it, I’ve briefly exchange eye contacts with the monk briefly when I was there. Coincidental is not coincident anymore.
After resting and taking my shower, we went back to Varanasi train station to pick up the boys. We rented a car big enough to do some sightseeing in Varanasi and Sarnath. The Dharamshamgjp ghat which I’ve seen the fire puja is a different atmosphere in the morning. Khun toon and the boys bought the flower with the candles lighted up in the middle and let it float on the river. The Thai monk explained to us in Thai along the way while Khun Toon did the translation.
We spent the early morning in the Dhamek stupa, while the Thai monk did a few Puja especially for us in the different spots.
I bought a train ticket around 12:30am, leaving to Grakraphur. There is a 2 hours delay, I suddenly think of what Khun Toon said: TII, This is India!
It turns out that the temple that we’re resting is in Sarnath and not in Varanasi, interestingly, that’s one of the temples I’ve visited few days ago when I was in Sarnath. I even ask myself why is there Thai monks staying in Chinese Mahayana temple. Come to think about it, I’ve briefly exchange eye contacts with the monk briefly when I was there. Coincidental is not coincident anymore.
After resting and taking my shower, we went back to Varanasi train station to pick up the boys. We rented a car big enough to do some sightseeing in Varanasi and Sarnath. The Dharamshamgjp ghat which I’ve seen the fire puja is a different atmosphere in the morning. Khun toon and the boys bought the flower with the candles lighted up in the middle and let it float on the river. The Thai monk explained to us in Thai along the way while Khun Toon did the translation.
We spent the early morning in the Dhamek stupa, while the Thai monk did a few Puja especially for us in the different spots.
I bought a train ticket around 12:30am, leaving to Grakraphur. There is a 2 hours delay, I suddenly think of what Khun Toon said: TII, This is India!
India Pilgrimage 18.09.2010
I booked a taxi from Gaya to visit Nalanda and Rajagriha. The energy in Vulture peak is amazing. The police officer is trying to be funny by saying he’s escorting me to the peak but in actual fact trying to ask me for money. I said, in Singapore giving money to Policeman is an offence and he truly accepts that without prompting further.
The taxi driver doesn’t know the sataraparni cave, which is very disappointed for me as it’s where the 500 enlightened arahats have their first Buddhist council.
When I’m about to leave, I met 2 Thai ladies about to check into their room, coincidentally they are leaving on the same train as I’m to Varanasi. They kindly offered me a ride to Gaya train station. It turns out to be an amazing affair. Tagged along with the ladies, Khun Toon and Khoon Jaeb are 2 young Japanese. I show the 2 japanese boys the room which happen to be where I’m staying for a quick refreshment and waited for the ladies to be ready. We went for dinner together. Since my train ticket is unreserved, I finally got the same train tickets as the ladies but not knowing it’s a second class, only seats.
Thankfully, there is an extra 2AC sleeper bed besides Khun Toon and Jaeb. Thus I upgrade my seat. Even though my plan is to make a change from Varansi to Grokrapur then to Kushinagara but what are the chances of meeting the Thai friends along the “room”. So I decided to join them instead.
The taxi driver doesn’t know the sataraparni cave, which is very disappointed for me as it’s where the 500 enlightened arahats have their first Buddhist council.
When I’m about to leave, I met 2 Thai ladies about to check into their room, coincidentally they are leaving on the same train as I’m to Varanasi. They kindly offered me a ride to Gaya train station. It turns out to be an amazing affair. Tagged along with the ladies, Khun Toon and Khoon Jaeb are 2 young Japanese. I show the 2 japanese boys the room which happen to be where I’m staying for a quick refreshment and waited for the ladies to be ready. We went for dinner together. Since my train ticket is unreserved, I finally got the same train tickets as the ladies but not knowing it’s a second class, only seats.
Thankfully, there is an extra 2AC sleeper bed besides Khun Toon and Jaeb. Thus I upgrade my seat. Even though my plan is to make a change from Varansi to Grokrapur then to Kushinagara but what are the chances of meeting the Thai friends along the “room”. So I decided to join them instead.
India Pilgrimage 17.09.2010
I visited the magnificent Maha Bodhi temple. The temple where Buddha gains enlightenment under the Bodhi tree. There is this peaceful and serene energy which vibrates around the area.
No doubt, the temple is a peaceful place to dwell in but Bodh Gaya is a saddening town. Fake monk trying to scam you, Local Indians trying to use learning English from you as an opportunity for you to listen to their sad life story and let you take pity on them. Looking at everyone, living ignorantly is saddening.
As a Buddhist, being mindful is very important, dwelling on the past is not going to change anything, feeling nostalgic, guilty, sorrowful and revengeful that you can’t change is meaningless. Neither is anticipating pointlessly about the future that faces uncertainty. The present moment, which provides us the opportunity for us to live in, in its sublime existential state, is the only place we can truly be.
I sat for about an hour near the Bodhi tree. I saw the changing of the robe donated from the devotees. What’s surprising is that the whole temple is dominated by the Thai. The interior of the altar is in typical Lai-Thai style. I talked to the monk whom changed the robe of the Buddha. He told me most of the furnishing, air-con, crystal lamps are all from Thailand. For a moment, I was very dignified and proud of being ¼ associated with Thai.
There is also a huge Buddha statue in mediation mudra nearby the town built by a Japanese temple which is absolutely majestic. The blue natural clouds that act as the backdrop is surreal.
No doubt, the temple is a peaceful place to dwell in but Bodh Gaya is a saddening town. Fake monk trying to scam you, Local Indians trying to use learning English from you as an opportunity for you to listen to their sad life story and let you take pity on them. Looking at everyone, living ignorantly is saddening.
As a Buddhist, being mindful is very important, dwelling on the past is not going to change anything, feeling nostalgic, guilty, sorrowful and revengeful that you can’t change is meaningless. Neither is anticipating pointlessly about the future that faces uncertainty. The present moment, which provides us the opportunity for us to live in, in its sublime existential state, is the only place we can truly be.
I sat for about an hour near the Bodhi tree. I saw the changing of the robe donated from the devotees. What’s surprising is that the whole temple is dominated by the Thai. The interior of the altar is in typical Lai-Thai style. I talked to the monk whom changed the robe of the Buddha. He told me most of the furnishing, air-con, crystal lamps are all from Thailand. For a moment, I was very dignified and proud of being ¼ associated with Thai.
There is also a huge Buddha statue in mediation mudra nearby the town built by a Japanese temple which is absolutely majestic. The blue natural clouds that act as the backdrop is surreal.
India Pilgrimage 16.09.2010
I left Varanasi to Gaya. The sleeper class is actually not that bad. The scenery along the way is mesmerizing. Along the journey, I met 2 Indian Muslim friends, Anis & Shouqeen. They are so much fun to talk with. They even taught me 1 – 10 in Hindi. In the middle of our conversations, there are always beggars interrupting us. So I said in Singapore, if you need to be a beggar, you’ve to apply certain kind of license or permit. We jokingly ask the beggars for license when they approach us. I know it’s bad but the beggar industry in India is very prosperous if you know what I mean. I gave a few rupees to a young boy whom swept the train as I thought he work hard for his money. When I left the train, it’s a little heartfelt. We exchanged emails and promise to visit their hometown in Maranbad if I’ve time. It’s my first genuine friendship made in India.
Initially, I hope to stay in the Bhutan temple in Gaya, however it’s closed for renovation so I try my luck in the Thai temple and it turn out as always my affinity is always with the Thai.
Initially, I hope to stay in the Bhutan temple in Gaya, however it’s closed for renovation so I try my luck in the Thai temple and it turn out as always my affinity is always with the Thai.
India Pilgrimage 15.09.2010
I visited Sarnath (deer park), which is a little disappointment. The glorious land where Dharma first shine, now becomes a park for lovers instead of deer… However, the temples from all the various country, Thailand, Japan, Myanmar, Korea, Tibet and many more make up for it. One of the most significant temples is the Sri Lanka, Mahabodhi temple, the architecture of the temple is stunning, and the life size sculpture of the Buddha turning the notion of Dharma to the 5 disciples is reflective. There’s also the sutta in various languages on the Buddha first teaching.
I visited the museum which is amazing. The sculpture excavated from the site in Sarnath style is breathe-taking. One of the finest compared to the Mauryan and Gupta which of course have a little influence from Ghandhara.
Not wanting to leave Varansi without a boat ride in the Ganges River, I asked my auto-rickshaw driver to alight me at the Assi Ghat. From there, I met 4 Germans and one Dutch as I’m not willing to pay for one whole boat by myself. I asked them if they mind if I join, they replied yes, and happily asked me to tag along. As the weather is gloomy, dark cloud overcast the river. It’s a little intimidating to hop on the boat. Nonetheless, we went ahead, amazingly, it’s a wonderful experience. It’s feels like we are on a boat against the stormy weather. There are lightings which turn outs to be my new found mates’ camera flashes. We reached the Daminikai Ghat just in time as the fire Puja is about to start. We walked about 15mins before locating the Ghat which performed the Puja. It’s one of the holiest rituals I’ve ever seen. Maybe it’s in front of the wide and horizonless river. Even though the rains keep pouring, it didn’t stop the ritual. While standing on the side of the long stairways in the rain, the kind tourist police officer invited to his small booth to take shelter.
After the puja, my newly made friends invited me to their guest house for dinner. On my way back, the road was flooding and I was totally drenched. Oh dear, I might need an extra pair of boots!
I visited the museum which is amazing. The sculpture excavated from the site in Sarnath style is breathe-taking. One of the finest compared to the Mauryan and Gupta which of course have a little influence from Ghandhara.
Not wanting to leave Varansi without a boat ride in the Ganges River, I asked my auto-rickshaw driver to alight me at the Assi Ghat. From there, I met 4 Germans and one Dutch as I’m not willing to pay for one whole boat by myself. I asked them if they mind if I join, they replied yes, and happily asked me to tag along. As the weather is gloomy, dark cloud overcast the river. It’s a little intimidating to hop on the boat. Nonetheless, we went ahead, amazingly, it’s a wonderful experience. It’s feels like we are on a boat against the stormy weather. There are lightings which turn outs to be my new found mates’ camera flashes. We reached the Daminikai Ghat just in time as the fire Puja is about to start. We walked about 15mins before locating the Ghat which performed the Puja. It’s one of the holiest rituals I’ve ever seen. Maybe it’s in front of the wide and horizonless river. Even though the rains keep pouring, it didn’t stop the ritual. While standing on the side of the long stairways in the rain, the kind tourist police officer invited to his small booth to take shelter.
After the puja, my newly made friends invited me to their guest house for dinner. On my way back, the road was flooding and I was totally drenched. Oh dear, I might need an extra pair of boots!
India Pilgrimage 14.09.2010
Varanasi is not for the faint hearted. The traffic, pollution, massive crowds and yes the vehicle horning! I could dream about it all night. As much as the worst is amidst in the open with no ending, the quiet and tranquil of river Ganges are a total contrast. The Ghats nearby are where the dying hope to catch their last breathes and get their dead body cremated in. The Hindus believe Ganges River is the best and holiest place in this earth to be cremated. Anyone whom take the ritual and bathe in the Ganges will stop reincarnating.
I bought the Indian sweets and it’s indeed “SWEET” but I love it. Maruti Guesthouse is very hospitable; Papu the owner is friendly and helpful. Thrifty, his wife is a good cook and amicable. Shruti, their daughter is very chatty and intelligent.
I visited Banaras Hindu University - a very green and peaceful campus which is where the Bharat Kala Bhavan, a museum of Art and Archeology situated.
Surprisingly, they have a few Ghandhara, Kushan Buddhsit sculpture. Amazing!
I bought the Indian sweets and it’s indeed “SWEET” but I love it. Maruti Guesthouse is very hospitable; Papu the owner is friendly and helpful. Thrifty, his wife is a good cook and amicable. Shruti, their daughter is very chatty and intelligent.
I visited Banaras Hindu University - a very green and peaceful campus which is where the Bharat Kala Bhavan, a museum of Art and Archeology situated.
Surprisingly, they have a few Ghandhara, Kushan Buddhsit sculpture. Amazing!
India Pilgrimage 13.09.2010
I went back to Potala palace hotel when I first came to Manuju latika for refreshment and slept through the whole afternoon. Since my train is leaving at 18:00. The 2AC class of the train from Delhi to Varansi is fantastic. The first time I ever enjoy a train ride, overnight. It’s clean, comfortable and to certain extent cozy. I could live in that train. Since it’s all in a dark and can’t figure out much what’s going on the outside, I indulge in Old path white cloud (Walking in the footsteps of Buddha) written by Thich Nhat Hahn. It’s the right book to bring along my pilgrimage. I highly recommend to everyone while doing their pilgrimage.
India Pilgrimage 12.09.2010
I spent my last remaining hours exploring further in Dharamshala. I visited the Bhangshu waterfall and come across another town before I take the long journey back to Delhi. The waterfall is breathe-taking; I didn’t realize there is a swimming pool. It’s so cold and yet all the Indians are diving into it.
The night bus to Delhi is excruciating but it’s the cheapest source of transport so I’m not going to complain…
The night bus to Delhi is excruciating but it’s the cheapest source of transport so I’m not going to complain…
India Pilgrimage 11.09.2010
All the donations and items we’ve collected from the past 3 days are packed nicely to the van. It’s amazing how generous the participants are and the effort of bringing heavy items all the way from Sunday, sincerely grateful.
There are some nasty and harsh remarks from JP on how he found the whole donation delivery is troublesome. I could have flare up easily but then I remember anger doesn’t resolve anything. So far everyone I’ve met, is so grateful that we’re doing something for these children.
As it’s a holiday for the children, we didn’t get to see a lot of the children. We ent to the office and get the official receipt on our donation made. We even have the plan of setting up a foundation for the Tibetan children Village. Let’s see how it’ll rolls…
There are some nasty and harsh remarks from JP on how he found the whole donation delivery is troublesome. I could have flare up easily but then I remember anger doesn’t resolve anything. So far everyone I’ve met, is so grateful that we’re doing something for these children.
As it’s a holiday for the children, we didn’t get to see a lot of the children. We ent to the office and get the official receipt on our donation made. We even have the plan of setting up a foundation for the Tibetan children Village. Let’s see how it’ll rolls…
India Pilgrimage 10.09.2010
The last day of the teaching is heart-warming. I renew my 5 precepts vows and I finally understood the real meaning of the precepts. Most of the time, we take the precept too literally. Precept is something you’re confining into or against your wishes but if you see it from another angle, it can be a new found experience.
The five precepts are:
1. I undertake the training rule to abstain from taking life
It means I respect all life and giving them life by not harming them
2. I undertake the training rule to abstain from taking what is not given.
It means I respect all property and by not taking what is not given, I am not harming myself against my action.
3. I undertake the training rule to abstain from sexual misconduct.
It means I respect all individuals and by that, I don’t harm myself and others by spreading sexual transmitted diseases.
4. I undertake the training rule to abstain from false speech.
Honesty is the best policy, by truthful speech; I won’t create disputes for others.
5. I undertake the training rule to abstain from intoxicants that causes heedlessness
It means I respect myself by allowing my brain to function clearly without doing anything impulsively that hurt others and me.
I cried tremendously when I renew my vows, I finally got the understanding why the precepts are necessary.
The five precepts are:
1. I undertake the training rule to abstain from taking life
It means I respect all life and giving them life by not harming them
2. I undertake the training rule to abstain from taking what is not given.
It means I respect all property and by not taking what is not given, I am not harming myself against my action.
3. I undertake the training rule to abstain from sexual misconduct.
It means I respect all individuals and by that, I don’t harm myself and others by spreading sexual transmitted diseases.
4. I undertake the training rule to abstain from false speech.
Honesty is the best policy, by truthful speech; I won’t create disputes for others.
5. I undertake the training rule to abstain from intoxicants that causes heedlessness
It means I respect myself by allowing my brain to function clearly without doing anything impulsively that hurt others and me.
I cried tremendously when I renew my vows, I finally got the understanding why the precepts are necessary.
India Pilgrimage 08.09.2010
As part of the committee, we have a special audience with Dalai Lama before the first day of teaching. He is such a wonderful and compassionate individual. Before the lecture, he’ll check with our committee, the nationality of the participants and their religious. I was so touched by his plan of wanting to do the Avalokitesvara initiation instead of long life puja for him.
First day of teaching is wonderful; Heart sutra was chanted in Chinese before the teaching. This year however I’m more into the Avalokitesvara initiation on the last day of teaching instead of his teaching. I know I shouldn’t but that’s something I look forward to.
First day of teaching is wonderful; Heart sutra was chanted in Chinese before the teaching. This year however I’m more into the Avalokitesvara initiation on the last day of teaching instead of his teaching. I know I shouldn’t but that’s something I look forward to.
This year teaching
Last year teaching
Monday, November 8, 2010
India Pilgrimage 07.09.2010
Thanks to Rita, I’ve the good fortune to have audience with Karmapa. It’s not as heart-warming as meeting the Dalia Lama, nonetheless it’s still an experience.
Registration this year is very well organized and efficient. There is no last minute hiccups or chaos like last year. It’s nice to see last year repeated participants. Glad to see Anila, the nun from Hong Kong. She passed me a film she had directed. Maybe it’ll be good for next year Buddhist film festival. This year, I was in charge of TCV donations, regardless it’s the money or stationary. Everything will be collected and send it to Tibetan Children Village.
For more information about TCV, please visit http://www.tcv.org.in/
Registration this year is very well organized and efficient. There is no last minute hiccups or chaos like last year. It’s nice to see last year repeated participants. Glad to see Anila, the nun from Hong Kong. She passed me a film she had directed. Maybe it’ll be good for next year Buddhist film festival. This year, I was in charge of TCV donations, regardless it’s the money or stationary. Everything will be collected and send it to Tibetan Children Village.
For more information about TCV, please visit http://www.tcv.org.in/
India Pilgrimage 04.09.2010
I found the book, Old path white cloud (Walking in the footsteps of Buddha) written by Thich Nhat Hahn on Ronpa café second hand book shelve for only 200 Rupees. It seems like a great book, Heidi highly recommends it. Immediately, I got the book. This is the second book I’ve got during this trip; I foresee there’ll be more.
Sunday, September 5, 2010
India Pilgrimage 04.09.2010
My first day of volunteering in Rongpa café is exciting and fun. I sweep and mop the floor meticulously. Also, I met some new friends and squeeze 2kg of lime into 1litre of lime juice for lemonade. There is also this book I saw in the second hand book shelf, Old path white cloud by Thich Nhat Hanh that I wanted to get.
After my volunteer work, I return to my guesthouse to have a rest. That’s where the knock on my door startled me. It’s a big surprise! Heidi and Tenzin are at the doorway. I miss Heidi! She is such a gentle, kind and thoughtful friend I’ve met last year in Delhi airport. I’ve such sensitive and in depth dharma conversation with John and her. It’s like a sweet reunion this year! I also bring her to stiches of Tibet to tailor-make Chupa for the last day of teaching.
We went to the nearby, 1-2 café, catching up on the past and the present. I showed her what’s new in Dharamshala and establish her local mobile communication with the world. She brought me to an amazing Thangka shop which sells the finest and detailed painting. I’m tempted to get a Thangka myself but after careful consideration, there is no way I could hang the Thangka in my small and overcrowded bookroom (not bedroom). I give the thought a miss, hopefully I can bring more friends to this shop to purchase good deservingly Thangka masterpieces.
We went to the nearby, 1-2 café, catching up on the past and the present. I showed her what’s new in Dharamshala and establish her local mobile communication with the world. She brought me to an amazing Thangka shop which sells the finest and detailed painting. I’m tempted to get a Thangka myself but after careful consideration, there is no way I could hang the Thangka in my small and overcrowded bookroom (not bedroom). I give the thought a miss, hopefully I can bring more friends to this shop to purchase good deservingly Thangka masterpieces.
India Pilgrimage 03.09.2010
I bumped into Luna when she is on her way to Ngympal monastery for circumambulation. I suggested that she circumambulate around the temple instead as it is more scenic. Last year, John and Heidi recommended me to take this route. We rolled the prayer wheels along the way and I told her a little about Buddhism and how life in Singapore is.
After we completed the circumambulation, we part our ways, as today is her last day and last time she’ll be in Dharamshala. She would like to spend some time alone in the temple to reflect her travelling experience but we promise to meet up later in Rongpa café, a café whom support the Tibetan refugees’ initiatives.
On my way to Rongpa cafe, I dropped by a shop to get a prayer beads and a hand phone pouch. The India shop owner is very inquisitive about my life; maybe I shouldn’t been so chatty. He asked about my solitary life and my interest on Buddhism and how some of his Christian relatives want to convert him. I told him human beings have that innate weakness of depending on a higher and supreme figure for salvation. It’s the easiest way to believe in the higher authority so we don’t have to rely on our own ability for our problems in our life. Our aloneness intimidates us. True happiness should come inside of you and not externally. External happiness can only last for a while and you’ll have to keep pursuing like a bottomless hole.
Last year, I came across Rongpa café and was inspired by their effort for supporting the Tibetan refugees. Thus, this year, I wanted to stay in Dharamshala longer to volunteer in this cafe as a shop assistant or barista. I found out from the Korean volunteers in Rongpa Café that they do require shop assistant in the morning. Without hesitation, I sell myself to the manager and got the job :) she told me to report at 8.30 am the next morning. I’m elated.
I met Luna back in the Rongpa café. We went in search of a monk whom she had taught English for 2 days. Knowing I’ll be a good successor to continue her volunteer work but sadly we can’t locate him and the rain is pouring. We then went to a Korean café as she is missing her hometown food. The Kimchi hot & spicy soup noodle is such a great comfort in this cold and wet weather. After some discussion and contemplation, I decided to drop the idea of visiting Nepal, Lumphini and Kamandthu as my visa is not able for reentry unless there is a 2 months interval. It’s disappointing but life goes on without considering your feelings. On the other hand, maybe changing the route meant for a greater purpose. I made a choice to visit Sanchi and Ajanta as a substitute.
After we completed the circumambulation, we part our ways, as today is her last day and last time she’ll be in Dharamshala. She would like to spend some time alone in the temple to reflect her travelling experience but we promise to meet up later in Rongpa café, a café whom support the Tibetan refugees’ initiatives.
On my way to Rongpa cafe, I dropped by a shop to get a prayer beads and a hand phone pouch. The India shop owner is very inquisitive about my life; maybe I shouldn’t been so chatty. He asked about my solitary life and my interest on Buddhism and how some of his Christian relatives want to convert him. I told him human beings have that innate weakness of depending on a higher and supreme figure for salvation. It’s the easiest way to believe in the higher authority so we don’t have to rely on our own ability for our problems in our life. Our aloneness intimidates us. True happiness should come inside of you and not externally. External happiness can only last for a while and you’ll have to keep pursuing like a bottomless hole.
Last year, I came across Rongpa café and was inspired by their effort for supporting the Tibetan refugees. Thus, this year, I wanted to stay in Dharamshala longer to volunteer in this cafe as a shop assistant or barista. I found out from the Korean volunteers in Rongpa Café that they do require shop assistant in the morning. Without hesitation, I sell myself to the manager and got the job :) she told me to report at 8.30 am the next morning. I’m elated.
I met Luna back in the Rongpa café. We went in search of a monk whom she had taught English for 2 days. Knowing I’ll be a good successor to continue her volunteer work but sadly we can’t locate him and the rain is pouring. We then went to a Korean café as she is missing her hometown food. The Kimchi hot & spicy soup noodle is such a great comfort in this cold and wet weather. After some discussion and contemplation, I decided to drop the idea of visiting Nepal, Lumphini and Kamandthu as my visa is not able for reentry unless there is a 2 months interval. It’s disappointing but life goes on without considering your feelings. On the other hand, maybe changing the route meant for a greater purpose. I made a choice to visit Sanchi and Ajanta as a substitute.
India Pilgrimage - Dharamshala
Days in Dharamshala is slow, real slow and weather is cooling. I’m usually quite decisive and since I’m a vegetarian, there is not a lot of variety to choose from the menu. However, it takes 12 mins for me to decide what I want to eat, and another 23 mins for the café to prepare my food. Food are done in near perfection and when ordered. I would also easily savage my food in less than 10 mins but the ambience and the whole environment allows me to take it slow. So, I’m slow, I take every minute to observe myself and in relationship with the world and my food. That’s what I mean by slow, mindfully yet enriching…
Thursday, September 2, 2010
India Pilgrimage 02.09.2010
It’s a fantastic surprise! Along the way to my guesthouse, I bumped into Millie and Gel, the 2 lovely ladies who rent their Bangkok apartment to me. It’s great to see familiar faces early in the morning.
Even though I can’t wait to get into the toilet and do my “big” business, I’m too excited not to meet and catch up with the girls. So once I checked in and put my backpack down, I rushed towards the café and meet them for breakfast. They told me that today is the Tibetan 50th year anniversary of democracy and the children from Tibetan Children Village are performing at Ngympal Temple. But before that I’ve to clear my bowels.
Just when surprises can’t surprise me anymore, I met Tenzin, the kind man whom booked my transport and accommodation for Dharamshala last year. We catch up shortly about our itineraries in Dharamshala.
My guesthouse KongPo is only 5mins to Ngympal Temple which is one of the reasons why I choose to stay there again. However, there is a misunderstanding on the date I’m supposed to check in and till to the late arrival. I’ve to pay for 2 nights that I didn’t stay. It’s a total of 1060Rps. Well, I’ve a feeling the next few weeks I’m going to eat grass. I try not to let this incident haunt my mind. We can’t control thing that are supposed to happen, right? Let’s take the entire adversaries with an open mind. Instead of Why me? Let’s asked Why NOT me?
After the performance of TCV in Ngympal temple, which by the way is culturally and visually stimulating. I went back to the guest house and wait for John’s arrival. He should be reaching by the mid day, it turns out nicely while I’m checking on the gate for his arrival; I heard his voice with familiarity. There he is, my roommate for the next 2 weeks. Last year, till to the extension of The DL teaching for the Taiwanese, almost every guesthouse and hotel is fully booked, John which I’ve met last year, kindly offer to share his room with me. Funny how fate coincides, this year I’m offering my room to him as KongPo is fully booked for the DL teaching.
I spend the remaining day, slowly, catching up with John, cafeing* and wandering on the streets. I bumped into Tenzin again. He asked if I want to join him for tea, I suggested RongPa café but it’s fully seated. So he brings me to bean café, an amazing modern furniturized café, we ordered Tibetan milk tea and chatted about dharma work and how he crosses over the mountains from Laksa to Dharamshala when he was 9. It’s truly sad but inspiring; the pursuit of freedom is librating.
We met a Korean girl, whom is looking for a seat on the balcony, since there is no seat vacant. We asked her to join us. She happily accepted our invite. She is a chatty and courageous backpacker; she visited the Iran, Afgan and the middle east by herself. Maybe one day, I’ll do the same.
*Cafeing – sitting in the café, one cafe after another.
India Pilgrimage 01.09.2010
I’ve about 6 hours to spare before my bus takes me to Dharamshala. I either can rush myself visiting some of the Delhi famous sight or chillax* in a café, wandering around MTK (Tibetan colony). I opt for the latter. Browsing the bookstores and discovering a few cafés, slowly before the bus take off.
Indians are never on time especially when the bus is not full or they are waiting for grandmother to give birth. They take every inches of space as an investment. If they can’t squeeze human, they’ll squeeze boxes of stuff and goods.
One good thing about taking the bus is the stops in between. You get to taste authentic local food. You might even come across 110Rp (S$3.80) vegetarian buffet in the middle of the night. Buffet is too much for me in the late hours so I choose Panner Parokola (Fried yogurt cheese) and a masala tea instead.
Finally, after 13 hours of bus ride where night turns into day and 15kg on my shoulder, I walked into my past, the familiar road to the KongPo guesthouse where I once stayed.
*chillax – Chill & Relax
India Pilgrimage 31.08.10
This year, I’ve travelled to Taiwan, a Mahayana Buddhist country), then to Thailand a Thevarada Buddhist country then last but not least, the final leg of my Buddhist pilgrimage, I’m flying to India, Dharamshala, a Vajrayana, Tibetan inspired Buddhist colony where the Dalai Lama reside.
I woke up at 6am in the morning. My mum and sister decided to accompany me on my first drop off of the trip. My sister drove me from Singapore, crossing over the custom, alighting in Larkin, Johore Bahru bus terminal.
I then begin to take the 4 hours bus ride to Kuala Lumpur, Bukit Jalia bus terminal. From there I made a change to the local train and reach KL Sentral. At the basement of the building, I took the daily operated Air Asia bus to LCCT.
Once I reach the LCCT, KL airport, while waiting for check in, I realize my mobile has no auto roaming signal. Some of you can’t live without a mobile phone but how about auto roaming? I called Singtel to resume my auto roaming because they have automatically terminated it while upgrading my plan. Miserably, they have forgotten my phone number. At times, my heart will be quite happy about not receiving any nuisance or work calls, but there is a certain kind of peace of not knowing who call or missed. However, my mum is not going to be too happy about it. How am I supposed to call home whenever I reached a new destination? Running around looking for overseas calling centre is not fun.
The journey from KL to Delhi takes 41/2 hours. Can you imagine I’ve already spend 15 hours just by reaching, Delhi, India Gandhi airport? Funny enough, when I arrive in Delhi, it still looks like it is late afternoon even though my time shows 8.30pm in the evening. The traffic jam in the city is atrocious and the taxi I took from the Gandhi airport broke down on the way to Manju ka Tila. I’ve to transfer from the Taxi to an Auto (tuk tuk). By the time, I arrive at the MTK (Tibetan colony), it’s already 9.45pm and 12.30am (midnight in Singapore). Too late to catch the bus to Dharamshala, I stay a night in Potala palace, which I’ve previously stayed, but this time the condition of the room is so different, it’s hot with a stench of long un-vacant smell, perhaps it’s located next to the generator. Furthermore, the electricity was cut off in the middle of the night.
I can’t help but to think of last year, with good fortune, I bumped into the organizer of the Dalai Lama’s teaching tour, the committees of Tibetan Buddhist Centre. With that, my journey was smoothly paved all the way from low land to high land. My accommodation and transport was nicely arranged so that I was not at all feeling like a tourist but rather hosted by the locals. This year, however, perhaps my good karma had exhausted, or the idea of flying to Kuala Lumpur to Delhi is not sluggish enough to begin with, I’ve got a feeling; the “best” has yet to come. Whatever happens, nothing compare to the obstacles Buddha had gone through before enlightenment. This might be one of the toughest journey I’ve ever endeavor. I’ve sheer determination I’m going to complete this entire pilgrimage.
India Pilgrimage - Excess Baggage
I'm packing again. It feels like I always am.
I’m so used to packing and unpacking, that somehow I know how to fit my whole life into a bag. Stuffs that I know are sufficed for me. Then, it strikes you that you can actually live without a whole lot of “wants” and survive with only what you need. Excess baggage don’t seem to occur at the check in counter but perhaps our whole life, we’ve been accumulating a lot of baggage along this destination called life. I suppose I should be grateful for a life that lets me run footloose, but instead of continuously accruing unwanted “wants”, how about collecting all the adventures, good or bad experiences and store them in a luggage where you don’t have to see them at a corner collecting dust…
Ahram boy - 30/07
When I ask myself in retrospect—and with regard to my own experience after spending 3weeks in the temple, what have I gain or miss, there are nothing to gain or misses, the experience is rewarding and will certainly take me further into my self-cultivation. There is always a right time and a right place for everything you need to experience.
I’ve grown accustomed and comfortable to the unexpected and the poor living condition is reminding me how to appreciate more in life. Travelling allows me to be another person, a person who goes with the flow, take things as it comes with an open mind.
I left the Suvarnabhumi airport with excess baggage in my heart…
Ahram boy - 29/07 Thur
Finally, the 2 chanting that I enamored is now burned into a CD in mp3 format. Thanks to the monk working in the Radio station, Phra Monghul. He passed it to me in time before I leave the temple tomorrow.
Khun Paul certainly reminds me of my grandfather whom I’ve lost to diabetes. It’s nostalgic to shop in the wet market with him and carrying his purchases just like what I’ve done together with my grandfather. My grandfather is a photographer. Even though I’ve never seen much of his work, I’m sure my creativity comes from him and not my father. I’m glad in this trip I met Khun Paul, a kind and responsible man, setting good role models for his student. Grateful I’ve his company this few weeks; he is always so helpful and considerate.
Funny that Khun Paul gives the class an interesting test for them, it is to converse in English and express their feelings on my departure. It is so attractive, seeing how everyone keeps wanting me to stay. I blush every time when the students say they love me. I guess they haven’t figure out the meaning of love and like.
Well, I have to leave and hopefully, I’ll be back again…
Ahram boy - 28/07 Wed
I went to Wat Pah Nanachat with Khun Paul and his wife. It is a famous forest meditation temple with western monks from all over the world. We brought along some food as offering to the monks. The temple is truly organized. Every food the lay people contribute is neatly arranged and serves to the monks. It’s like an International buffet style. After the monks had taken their breakfast, we then begin to have ours. Breakfast is simply delectable. The surrounding is serene and conducive. I can see myself in this place for advance mediation.
Ahram Boy - 27/07 Tue
I was invited to the radio station again to talk about the Asalha Puja. It’s to commemorate the Buddha’s first sermon in the Deer Park in Benares and the founding of the Buddhist sangha. In Thailand, Asalha Puja is a government holiday. It takes place in July, on the full moon of the eighth lunar month. Thus, we talk about the Buddha’s first teaching, four noble truths. How, it’s so simple but yet difficult to achieve.
We talk about the nature of suffering, how ignorance created self or I and without our senses, there’ll be no me. It’s like when you sleep, when your five senses is not receptive, where are you? You exist only when your five senses starts to react with the environment, forming perceptions, ideas and clinging and attaching to it. It’s not easy to explain and difficult to comprehend but when you sit down quietly and notice how your mind and emotions arises and subjected to your senses, then you’ve a deeper understanding of sunyata (emptiness).
Ahram boy - 26/07 Mon
Khun Paul drives me to Wat Nong Bua,. It is the only temple that has a rectangular Chedi, which is an imitation of Chedi Buddhakhaya of India. There are a lot of people on the streets, celebrating the candle festival, Buddhist Lent. I however seem to be repulsed by the tremendous crowd; I went to Thung Si Muang park to get some gifts for the novice monks (instant noddles, Mama), Khun Paul, his wife and Khun Ork (Hankerchiefs) and develop a photo of Luang Por digitally I’ve shot.
Ahram boy - 25/07 Sun
I’m a little disappointed by the monk’s behavior, not just the poor dharma knowledge but their conduct. Yesterday, I saw a novice monk shooting a bird with a slingshot. I’m upset but more upset when the senior monk stood by and does nothing. I’m convinced that renunciation is in your heart and not by what you wear and the ceremony you undergoes. Whatever sins or evil someone has done is purely his own doing as he’ll be facing his own consequences. I’m no angel, I kill ants accidentally but for me, I’ll reflect it as a reminder of how killing is detrimental and a precept that we all should follow mindfully.
On my part, being judgmental and critical is a great defilement too, I must let go all my preconceive ideas and my opinions, see things as it is and watch myself, my ego, reactions and emotions carefully. I can’t possibly make everyone follow exactly what I wish to be, clinging to my “noble” thoughts can only make me suffer even more.
On my part, being judgmental and critical is a great defilement too, I must let go all my preconceive ideas and my opinions, see things as it is and watch myself, my ego, reactions and emotions carefully. I can’t possibly make everyone follow exactly what I wish to be, clinging to my “noble” thoughts can only make me suffer even more.
Ahram Boy - 24/07 Sat
I keep remembering this date as it’s one of my dear friend, Joseph, whom passed away 8 years ago. Happy Birthday, wherever you are!
I went to nearby Thung Si Muang Park, knowing that today is a rest day for me. For the past weekend, I’ve been sleeping over at the villages, so it’s good for me to explore Ubon, since Khao Pansa is coming and I’m sure there’s a lot happening in the park.
The food & fashion stalls all setting up their tent in the park, welcoming all the local and foreign tourists. It really is a big deal in Ubon, there is even an opencCandle sculptures exhibition. During this period, 3 months, Thai people are advised to refrain from smoking and drinking alcohol. It’s a time for self cultivation and observing all the precepts.
I went to nearby Thung Si Muang Park, knowing that today is a rest day for me. For the past weekend, I’ve been sleeping over at the villages, so it’s good for me to explore Ubon, since Khao Pansa is coming and I’m sure there’s a lot happening in the park.
The food & fashion stalls all setting up their tent in the park, welcoming all the local and foreign tourists. It really is a big deal in Ubon, there is even an opencCandle sculptures exhibition. During this period, 3 months, Thai people are advised to refrain from smoking and drinking alcohol. It’s a time for self cultivation and observing all the precepts.
Ahram Boy - 23/07 Fri
I now know why the early morning alms offering is so contemplative and calm, it’s because I’m bare foot, imagine when you’re mindful at each step that you take, hopefully not to step into sharp or dirty objects, your mind becomes more aware.
The morning class, I’ve taught is incredible sweet, knowing I’ll be leaving next Friday, there present me a token of appreciation. It’s a photo framed with an elephant giving thanks to the Thai King. The learning experience is mutual, they taught me patient and enriching my temple boy experience. Grateful and thankful! I’ll miss all of them.
There is even a boy whom confesses his love to me :)
Ahram Boy - 21/07 Wed
The early morning alms offering are very contemplative. It’s like every morning I’m clearing up my mind, the same as I’ll clear my bowels I decided to have a different approach this morning, whoever offers food, I’ll personifies and dedicate my metta (loving-kindness) to them. It feels really good, like a kind of purification, except not with water but with your sincere thoughts.
Last week, I gave the student an assignment. That’s to choose an English song and perform in front of the class. A question will be asked based on their understanding of the lyrics. It’s a sudden change of approach from the usual when they are so restless in the class. Group by group rehearsing in the class, It makes me wonder if they have used the same amount of interest into studying English, will the result be more spectacular?
After the chanting and mediation, I’ve to tutor one of the monk English, Phra Mon, he’s a smart alec student, it’s good to question but only if you’ve understand and counter check the teaching. He questions a lot and I’m not too sure if he’s trying to impress, certainly not to me. His basic is not strong yet he wants to demonstrate he knows everything.
Just when I’m about to shower and hoping to rest early, the old rusty toilet door knob which I accidentally slammed locked me inside the toilet. I realize it’s not possible to twirl it open from inside or outside the door. To make matter worse, the door knob has dropped and only left the middle stem of the knob. It’s so rusty that I could either died of rust infection or confinement in a squat toilet. Oh dear, I thought I’m going to suffocate at one point. I panic for about 3 seconds. Thank goodness, I’m a Buddhist and aware no anxiety will help you in this kind of situation. There is no one around in the temple, especially in the night, where no visitors are allowed. I reluctant to shout for help unless I’ve try all means to save myself. Fortunately, a monk nearby noticing the sound I made when struggling with the door knob attempt to open the door, however, it’s a one way thing, I’ve to twirl it from my side.
After struggling for about 10 minutes, that’s when the light bulb in my head blinks, I being to grab my towel and wrapped over what remains in the door knob and twist it open. Thank Buddha, the door strung wide open.
For once in my life, I’ve never dreamed of going to the toilet can be a phobia from now.
Ahram Boy - 20/07 Tue
I’m literally sleeping behind the Buddha. I even have to refrain myself from any dirty thoughts. It’s still a bit surreal waking up every morning to see Buddha descent from Tushita heaven. The room I sleep in has a wooden window craved with Buddha’s life story; fortunately, I’ve the story of Buddha's mother, Maya Deva, was reborn in Indra's heaven after she died. To repay her kindness, liberate her, and also to benefit the gods in the heaven, Buddha ascended to the heaven where he preached before the divine congregation, including his mother, for three months.
It kind of reminds me part of the reason why I’m taking this temple boyhood, is because to gain merit for my mother and perhaps all my mother from my past seven lifetimes.
I’ve a roommate, Khun Saw, he is diligent and hard working. He wakes up early to practices chanting and mediation. Sweeping the temple hall and never once I saw him complaining of anything. Even though he is of a certain age, he is only a beginner since March. Some monks told me he used to be a Thai Boxer.
Sometimes, I feel fortunate to have the opportunity of living in the temple, simple yet peaceful surrounding, calming my emotions and mind. Throughout my noviceship, leading a simple, quite life without hot shower, radio, TV and newspaper, not knowing what the world is happening. I also don’t have a mirror to remind myself who I am and attaching to my form, defending and answering to this body. There is a sense of freedom living day by day by the minute, not anticipating the future, not knowing what food will be on the table, and all I need is to focus on the impermanence. Everything rises will eventually come to an end.
Ahram Boy - 19/07 Mon
Ajahn Sakhun, one of the teachers I’ve met in the first village, Nong Lau has invited me to his school for a “farang” visit, basically, sharing with the students about life in Singapore. The students which I’ve met previously in Nong Lau are delighted to see me back in the village. It’s an enriching experience. I really like being a teacher. The children are so emancipating. They asked me for a volley ball game. The weather is hot but seeing how I can bring the children laughter makes me “jai yen” (cool hearted).
There is no banquet where you don’t leave the table eventually, we bid farewell and Ajahn Sakhun drives me back to Wat Thung Si Muang.
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